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I use to think dating was tough. Then I stopped having expectations and quit treating the date like an interview. Basically I stopped looking for a relationship all the time and just have fun. I noticed how many women out there actually just want to hang out and discreetly get laid. Even the 'good girls' but most guys start trying to qualify themselves as 'boyfriend' material. What a mess.
At this point I just invite girls to do things I'm interested in, try not to let either of us go into the 'date/interview' mindset and when I feel like touching and kissing them they're a lot more receptive then the old 'dating' me. Of course this leads to more casual sex but even if you're looking for a 'girlfriend' you're going to learn a lot more about a person when you're intimate with them. Had a lot more fun this way (got better at sex a lot faster) and because I have more of a 'casual' attitude I do kind of go through women faster but I also meet more interesting ones more often, upping the quality of potential girlfriends. You kind of turn yourself into that chill 'don't give a shit' guy. Only downside is you wind up with a lower 'bullshit threshold' so relationships that would normally last say a year or two will last half that time. Just my personal experience. Either it makes sense or I'm gonna come off as crazy. Guess I'm trying to say just have fun. No expectations and realize most women live in fear of being judged for being sexual creatures. Let them know that shit doesn't apply with you and see what happens (hint: fun boner-ific things).
Just the tip.
Trust me, you only know if a girl is crazy after two or three months, haha.
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